A Note from Mel

Make the connection…

One hell of a quote. October 23, 2008

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“We certainly less gangsta than this damn government.” – Russell Simmons on Hip Hop


Lorde, mothers and sons. October 15, 2008

I’ve heard it said before (that being a mother changes you). I just never understood how so or how much until I became one one December afternoon in 2006. Those who know me and my baby boy know that he arrived about 8 months after this on a temperate July evening. But, I was a mom almost immediately; Not because I was bearing him, but because I almost immediately began to internalize what being a mom entailed for me and my baby. At first, an absolute and complete state of puzzlement encapsulated me for no longer than two days; Immediately after, a constant peace set in, a knowing from a place I could not name or locate.

Almost 15 months later after his physical arrival to this place, this constancy has remained, sort of like an axis on which my life as a mother spins steadily, however, fast or slow.

Some constants: my overwhelming determination to preserve, protect, educate, enjoy the Black male I bore. The feeling which benefits from, but gains no essential value from knowledge/the mind, can only be described as fierce.

Fiercely, I love him. Fiercely, I protect him. Fiercely, there are no conditions.

I know the day will come where protector will no longer be my role. Many things, he will have to learn on his own. Some things are not in my power to teach him. However, I am empowered by Audre Lorde ‘s essay, Man Child: A Black Lesbian Feminist’s Response in Sister Outsider :

“I wish to raise a Black man who will not be destroyed by, nor settle for those corruptions called power by the white fathers who mean his destruction as surely as they mean mine. I wish to raise a Black man who will rcognize that the legitimate objects of his hostility are not women, but the particulars of a structure that programs him to fear and despise women as well as his own Black self. For me (Audre Lorde), this task begins with teaching my son that I do not exist to do his feeling for him.”

I do not exist to do his feeling for him. First I think of course not. But then I think how not? An immediate conflict of feelings. A feeling to embrace, a feeling to develop until his manhood, a feeling to let diminish for his benefit.

This journey, the practice of diminishing in tandem with large ties, bonds, care, is just beginning for my son and I. This life comes through us (mothers) and has nothing to do with the mind.
So much we teach them. But how much more they teach us. How joyful and painstaking is this road.

Lord, Lorde , have mercy. Give me the strength to bear his smiles.


Peace Mural Exhibition (November 29, 2008 – January 30, 2009) October 12, 2008

Two of my poems, Military Portraits and Dilawar, after Death will be included in Huong’s Peace Mural. If you have poems about war, torture, and/or justice, please consider submitting. More info: Huong’s Peace Mural (600 feet in length) will be in Washington, DC for a 9-week exhibition from November 30, 2008 thru January 30, 2009.
Invitation to Poets with PAW to submit poems: Huong is particularly looking for poems about torture, war, justice and related themes, that can fit into a new mural segment she is working on,  to be added to the DC exhibition as the newest segment of the mural. Submissions should be emailed directly to Huong at huong@huong.org.   Poems should be short, fitting in a single page WORD document, on standard paper, 8.5′ x 11″, with 2″ MARGINS, not smaller than 11pt. type; The subject of the email should read “Poetry Submission.” The selected poems will be affixed to a 9″x12″ canvas as part of the Peace Mural exhibition in DC. Huong is in need of as many as 50 such poems.  Poems should be relatively SHORT, sharp, and easy for the public to read in order to catch the message immediately.  
No problem if previously published. Just give that credit at bottom of poem.
John W. Frank, Ed.D., (904) 705-4322
President, Peace Mural Foundation, Inc.

Professor of Public Policy, University of North Florida
. of Political Science & Public Administration
Alternate Email: jfrank@unf.edu


just in the nick of time October 7, 2008

and as this election continues to make my stomach bunch, a message of the desire for peace and positive change:

The Obama Song produced by will.i.am